一个那么幸福的男人。。。One Happy Man....

随着年龄的增长，面对生离死别的机率也跟着增加。今天，爸爸又说了，他一个朋友，大家都叫他老总。前几年，我们才到台湾去参加他的婚礼。我没有印象，因为还年轻，太年轻了。只知道，这个叔叔的老婆很漂亮，然后，能在台湾吃到牛肉面，也是托他的福。
As i grow up, the chance of experiencing people close to me leaving me one by one eventually increased. Today, my dad said again, one of his friends, everyone called him Ah Zong. I still remember attending his wedding like few years ago. But i don't really have an idea what was going on, i was still too young. I just know this uncle's wife is beautiful, and i get to eat Beef Noodles was also his 'gift' to us.

世事难料，今天爸爸就抖出他藏在心中几年的秘密。我从楼下上来，那是心里还蛮烦，因为某些事没做好。然后，爸爸叫住我。我就坐在父母房里的大床上。爸爸递上我们一家和老总叔叔的合照。他问我还记不记得这个叔叔。我点头。
Things just went out of expectation most of the time, today dad told us the secret he kinda hid from us for years. I went upstairs, getting quite frustrated with some stuffs. My dad called me. He showed me the picture we took with uncle Zong and his wife on their wedding day. He asked whether i still remember this uncle, so i nodded.

‘他死了。’
'He died.'

吓！！！什么？然后，妈妈随后进来，爸爸又说了同一句话。他说，叔叔去世很多年了，在他结婚不久后。爸爸不敢说出口，到现在才敢开口。爸爸还让我看叔叔寄给他的卡片，里面有着他要娶老婆的喜悦和羞涩。
Serious?! What!!! And then mum came in too, dad repeated the same sentence. He said he wasn't able to tell us even if the uncle had passed away for few years already, yea, not long after his wedding. Dad couldn't tell us, he wasn't able to. And he even showed me the card uncle wrote to him, written how excited he was to be a homey man.

现在，在写着这个post的时候，又听到爸爸说，在老总叔叔下葬的那一瞬间，他忽然想起老总叔叔。感应啊。。。原来是真的。爸爸还称赞那个叔叔说，他待人真诚，很好客。虽然没说，但是我看到爸爸的眼泪。我从没看过爸爸会为了一个朋友那样感伤。原来长大还包含了这些事情。
Now when i'm writing this post, i heard the conversation between dad and mum. The minute uncle was buried, dad suddenly thought of him. So it was true about sensing someone's death, someone dear to you. Dad even praised that uncle was a sincere man, he made friends through his heart. Although dad didnt say out, i could still see his tears rolling. I had never seen my dad getting sad over his friends. And now i know growing up includes experiencing these things.

婚礼前夕，老总叔叔还带着我们去逛夜市。他的朋友作弄他，说：‘老总，你可别忘了你明天还有婚礼啊！！’
The night before uncle's wedding, he even took us for a walk at the night market. His friends kinda teased him, 'Hey Zong! Remember you still have a wedding tomorrow!'

那一句话，好像成了永恒。。。
That sentence made me wanna cry.